Today’s Write On! guest is debut author Sayde Grace.  (Hi, Sayde! Thanks for joining me!)  Sayde has recently sold her first novella (congrats!), and I couldn’t wait to pick her brain about the writing life.   Since Sayde joined my local RWA group, I’ve been impressed by her drive and determination to break into the romance market.

1.    What inspires you?

A lot of things inspire me. Mostly I’ll watch a movie or hear a song that really makes me think and before you know it I’ve got a story forming. For example when I was toying around with my paranormal romance where my heroine is a real hard ass I needed a way to make her seem a little softer around the hero.

As I was sitting in the car pool line waiting to pick up my kiddo from school Taylor Swift’s song “I’m not your princess”, came on the radio. What better way to make a hard ass seem softer than to have the hero call her “princess” and her not rip his beans and frank off?

2.    What is the best part of the writing life?

The best part is joining the different writing groups and meeting other authors. It’s amazing to find so many people out there going through the same ups and downs as you. Other writers can be your biggest support system and I’m beyond thankful for the relationships I’ve developed over the last year.

3.    Okay, flip it. What is your least favorite part of the writing life?  What do you dread?

Oh by far the absolute worst is the querying part. Most people don’t realize when they begin writing how hard this part is, but even now after having been offered a few contracts I’m still terrified of that rejection which could be lurking in my inbox. That never gets easier. And now as I’m getting ready for my first release I’m starting to get nervous about reviews. Oh the tortures we put ourselves through so the little voices in our heads will leave us alone!

4.    What’s the best book you’ve ever read—why?

Well of course ALL of Cynthia’s books are favorites of mine! But besides Cynthia’s books I’ve developed a fondness for historical romance and adore Mary Spencer’s book Dark Wager. The hero has such a dark tortured but redeemable soul and the heroine is so strong and loving.

After that book I love paranormals with werewolves. Patricia Briggs Mercy Thompson books are ones I wait in line to go out and grab. Her character Adam is by far my favorite hero of all time, sorry Cynthia I adore Niol but…

(What?  I think we need a cage fight between Niol and Adam!)

5.    Tell us about your upcoming release.  How did you come up with the premise for this story?  Did you plot the book out from the beginning or did you let the story lead you?

Well right now I’ve got too many irons in the fire. I am working on a young adult manuscript where the heroine finds out her mother is actually Lilith (Adam’s first wife).     Then I’ve also got an urban fantasy with werewolves and they are out in the world as the Luna Nation. That story is by far my favorite and was inspired by the tale of little red riding hood! Yes that big bad wolf may indeed eat her up!

But what I’m currently tied up with is a series of short stories which will be published by The Wild Rose Press. This is my cowgirl series. Growing up rodeoing I learned a thing or two about the “Cowboy Way” and am proud to bring the kinky side of them alive (Oh did I mention these are erotica?? Well they are and smokin’ hot!)

The first book is entitled Riding Double and will release in May 7, 2010.

I’m by far a plotter. I plot the entire book out in a notebook along with character traits, sub-plots, and other ideas which could enhance the book.

6.    What’s one piece of advice that you would like to give to aspiring authors?

As they say in elementary school knowledge is power and well they’re right! The more you learn about the industry, craft, and writing community the better off you’ll be. Never be afraid to ask questions and take everything you hear with a grain of salt. No one person is going to hold all the answers or know what is best for you. You have to be the final decision maker and use that knowledge to further your writing. Never stop learning or writing.

7.    Any other wisdom you’d like to share:

I tell everyone to take all the advice you hear with a grain of salt and I truly mean it. People will tell you writing is subjective and it is! You may send out fifty queries, partials, or fulls of your manuscript and only get a few bites from it. Never be discouraged, this is where persistence pays off. The industry is subjective therefore you must strive to find one person who fits well with your work and sometimes that takes time, lots of banging your head on the desk time. Good luck to everyone banging their heads on the desk, we should have our own group.

Thanks, Sayde!  You can learn more about Sayde at her website or at her group blog, Southern Sizzle Romance. Her book may be purchased through the Wild Rose Press.

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